I must say I have finally reached a good place in my life. Good place meaning, I’m at peace with who and what I am as a person. I am comfortable in my own skin. I don’t care what you say or think. I know what I like and what I don’t like. I’m comfortable with saying “No”, and telling you the truth, if you ask!
I am not perfect by any means but my heart is and has always been good and I always have good intentions. I now keep my expectations low of people , (especially with family members ) because that way I want be disappointed. Actually, I have no expectations from anyone. Life delivers far less disappointments that way.
Now, when you finally reach the good place in your life, there are many people who want understand. Those people want respect your growth or your change. People want you to be where they want you to be, how selfish of them. But very true.
Example of a minimal life change for me, I choose to stop eating pork and beef. But, I’m still being offered pork and beef, I don’t eat it anymore. Sorry no offense! I know changes are hard but are necessary to be in the good place!
Anyone who doesn’t see or recognize your growth have a stunted mentality. You don’t need that in your life. You need people in your life who doesn’t stunt your growth.
Honestly, those people are miserable. They want you to be at the same place they are because that’s where their mindset is. They are in Misery class 101.
Some people attack those who are in a good place, have found joy and peace because it’s something they wish they had. Just disregard them and stay focused on your good place.
Just give them the disclosure, “I’m not the same person you knew I have grown.” Any person who expects you to be the same has not grown their self and it shows in their mindset.
Never let any miserable person dictate your mood. Always keep an open mind and open heart. And enjoy your “Good Place”
Comment below and tell me when you found your Good Place and how it makes you feel?